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The beginning of the year comes with the intention of
changing our lives and habits so we can participate more fully in life.
Many believe that if they could just get organized, the rest of their
lives would fall into place. Others believe that if their significant
other would just get organized, the rest of their relationship would be
smooth. But how many of us in a relationship have actually ever
broached the subject of organization and how it affects the
relationship?
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As I write this column, it is Valentines Day. A
day centered on chocolate, red hearts and love. A day about people who
are committed to one another and to a future.
Similarly, in January Clear & SIMPLE™ participated in a Bridal Show,
again about two people who are looking to a future together and the
happiness that it will bring.
As participants and observers in these rituals we
asked ourselves - How many of us have ever discussed organization or
organization styles as a couple? It is not necessarily a subject that
comes up for discussion until it becomes an issue. We want to help you
take a preemptive strike now - help you to be proactive and provide you
with a new way to strengthen your relationship.
I want to share with you today, some ideas
generated by Kelly Pratt, a Clear & SIMPLE™ associate, about
organizing as it applies to couples.
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 Take a few minutes to determine where you are in
relation to the space that you share with each other and what your
individual organizing styles are.
Ask the following questions:
- What are my individual organizing strengths?
- What are my organizing weaknesses?
- What is our vision of our space?
- What are some thing we need to acquire or get
rid of?
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"Map" is an acronym for "Make a Plan". As you create a
household that accommodates you as a couple, take some time to plan how
you will make your vision a reality.
Some examples of maps you might create:
- Draw a diagram of where everything will go in
your living space.
- Create a collage that represents the vision of
your space
- Make an actual written list of your needs and
wants
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Once you have taken the time to SEE IT and MAP IT, it is time
to actually DO IT.
Utilize the Clear & SIMPLE™ system of S.T.A.C.K.S.™ to
implement the vision of your space. Use the MAPS you created to
implement your vision as a couple. Working together as a couple, you
can use each others strengths to create a winning combination of styles!
Remember that organizing is a process. You will likely have
to revisit your space and systems periodically to maintain an
environment that supports you both.
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| Clear & SIMPLE™ Events |
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NEW!
Get Organized the Clear & SIMPLE Way
Complete 8 CD Audio Book by Marla Dee
Order it now at www.clearsimple.com
Becoming a Professional Organizer
This 5 day live training class has openings available
When: February 26 - March 2, 2007
Where: 150 S. 600 E. Suite 5D
Salt Lake City, Utah 84094
MARCH
The Spring Home and Garden Show
When: March 8 - 11, 2007
Where: The South Towne Expo Center
Organize Your Life Stage
Clear & SIMPLE™ will be presenting workshops and spotlights
throughout the day at the annual Spring Home and Garden Show at the
South Towne Expo Center. More details to come!
Becoming a Professional Organizer
This 5 day live training class is still available.
When: March 26 - 30
Where: Austin, Texas
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Marla's Message |
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I have spoken to audiences of all different sizes
and types for many years about getting organized. And without fail,
when it comes time to ask questions, the first question is “what if I
have married / or work with / the opposite of me?" I want to laugh and
cry at the same time because this organizing challenge is the biggest
one out there! We are dedicating this issue of Simple Said to offering
hope. I want to say – start with a sit down, get real, from the heart
session with the meaningful people in your life. Share what your
preferences are when it comes to your environment and daily life. Do
you need everything out or all put away? Do you need 30 minutes to
yourself before you are hit with interruptions? Take an hour or two
this month and show your love & support in a new way. And, don’t
forget – you can always call a Professional Organizer and ask for help!
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